Being a mom of twins is so much fun...but it is unbelievably challenging at the same time! Here are some things my sweet babies have taught me...
-Forget about quick, easy trips anywhere! A trip to Target for a mom with one baby might be something she thinks nothing of...I have done it with just one baby and it is very possible and actually enjoyable. But just try to go anywhere with two! Fitting two car seats in a cart is near impossible. So if I do go, I just put them in their stroller but then, how to push a cart? I don't...I just carry what I can buy....or stick it next to the babies in their seat:) Don't forget that I have to make sure that both babies are fed, not too tired, etc. Oh, it is just not worth it!
-Very few people have a good understanding of basic biology! More times than I can count, I have been asked if my twins are identical (usually after I say they are boy/girl so there is no confusion there). I usually reply no, one is a boy and one is a girl to which most people immediately realize what they said and laugh. No problem. But unbelievable to me are those that still don't get it, or worse want to argue that it is possible for a boy/girl set of twins to be identical. I try to be nice but have finally say, "My son has a p**** and my daughter does not! They obviously can't be identical!!!"
- Being a mom is 1o times harder and a million times more wonderful than I ever thought it could be! It is amazing how these babies will exhaust me to no end, where I can't wait for them to fall asleep so I can just breath, and then as soon as they are asleep I can't wait for them to wake back up. I love looking at life through their eyes. The boundless energy Elaina possesses inspires me to not sit still. Skylar's ability to look at EVERYTHING with the widest,most inquisitive eyes is so fun to observe. And then to hear him giggle at what seems to be nothing makes me take a closer look at life. To watch Elaina really look into my eyes, touch my face, and then smile is amazing. She teaches me to trust others more as it is obvious she does. I could go on and on but now that they are asleep I probably should be too so I am ready for another day that will surely take off going 0 to 60 in an instant. I love each day with my little twinnies!